“They gave 6-9 months to live and I’m still here”
Carpe Diem, which translated to English would be similar to “seize the
day”, is an antique way of life. People, who follow this mentality, seem, to
me, slightly arrogant and hypocrite. One more time, Jay Lynchehaun, cancer
fighter, charity founder and motor-racing devotee, proves that I was mistaken
Precise as a Swiss Cuckoo-clock, Jay Lynchehaun arrives on
time. No minute earlier or later. 11:00am, as it was previously arranged. As wedding-photographer, part-time graphic
designer, ex-mechanic, motor-racing fanatic, charity founder and hopeful
fighter, squeezing each second of his life is crucial.
Rigorously on time, the interview takes place on the
spacious living room of his country house outside Blackburn. We urgently need Jay’s advice. How you manage your time? Is it possible? Does
your day have 24 hours like mine? Do hours have 60 minutes for you? Do the fighter, photographer and graphic
designer fit in one person? How do you
plan yourself?
‘Take every day as it comes, I don’t know what I’m going to
do in the future’, he gently reveals.
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Jay Lynchehaun |
Couple years ago, he was working as a mechanic in a local
store after specialising in college in vehicle and motoring engineer. As car-addict,
he often makes visible his passion. With
a navy jacket, Nurburgring circuit printed on the back, working jeans and
stop-sign red Ferrari shoes, he welcomed me to his house.
When, on October 2011, he was enforced to quit his job and
lifestyle; he become an unconditional fighter and cancer charity founder. Since
then, Jay had to change his habits and mentality.
The 28-year-old ex-mechanic was
diagnosed brain cancer.
He fortunately realized that he was having some
symptoms he couldn't explain.
At that moment, his tumour was so urgent that he
needed immediate surgery. He naturally
explains how they have de-bulked 30% of his brain due to the malicious tumour.
‘I’m terminal. But they gave 6-9 months to
live and I’m still here, two and a half years later’, he declares.
Life completely
changed for Jay. He describes the treatment as an eternal rollercoaster. ‘You
are going up and down day after day’. Dealing with drugs is not painless. ‘The
food replete of steroids and the strength of the drugs made me more sensible.’
It is admirable his ambitious for life. He is a natural fighter. Every minute, second,
even split second, it is a continuous battle against cancer. ‘Some days you
just don’t want to fight. But there is something inside that keeps you going.’
Jay has never pushed the brakes. He always kept accelerating
until he achieved a ‘normal’ life.
As he was going through cancer-treatment,
permanently on bed, he decided to give a radical change to his life. He started
exercising with the help of a neck charity.
That was the turning point. Two years later, in January 2013 he started this
project: InBetweenEars. It is brain
tumour cancer charity which aims to provide personal help and support for
patients and to supply the funds for research.
‘I founded the charity mainly for two reasons: Firstly there
was no support for young people like me. I didn’t want to attend to support
meetings for older generations.’
Lynchehaun
confidently believes that cancer, as any other disease, has a cure. This is why
a great part of the money raised is destined to cancer research at the
University Central of Lancashire.
InBetweenEars ,a North
West based brain tumour charity that organises,
through Social Media, family events and days-out with the only purpose of raising money. Managed by his mom Sharon and himself, they were able to connect and
aware the local community with this wide disease.
He describes the ceaseless
support of his family as ‘a rock’. ‘Without them I wouldn’t have passed through
treatment’. Due to social media, he is
also able to communicate and interact with other people around the world
suffering brain cancer.
After 16 months of life,
InBetweenEars has claimed for success. Last year, they were able to raise
over £5,500, extremely helpful for researches and patients. However, Jay hasn’t
crossed the finish line yet.
‘The best
about life is living every day’ he says as he reminded us his Carpe Diem
mentality. ‘I want to live on this earth
for a really long time’, he sentences my arguments.